Marriage...Lifetime or not?

Weather status: Sick day :(

What is the definition of marriage?
mar·riage:
the legal or religious ceremony that formalizes the decision of a man and woman to live as husband and wife

To me, marriage is for lifetime unless some tragedies befall on us and separate us between heaven and earth or any tinge of unfaithfulness creeps in to destroy this blissful marriage.

Why do some people, be it man or woman, would want to dishonour the marriage vow which he/she promised during his/her wedding day? Superduper delicious temptation which you could not resist or a moment of folly?

In some cases, wife supported her husband unconditionally and trying her best to balance between family and work. But at the end of the day, husband feels that the wild flower outside their house is more attractive than his homely orchid flower. Even though, he may have spent more monies on his latest vamp than on his own wifey....

In other cases, wife took on a housewife role and ensure that all housework/children are taken care of and most important of all is to cook sumptuous meals for husband who works so hard in order to bring in bread and butter home. However, at the end of the day, husband still feels that wife is still not as attractive to the vamp he had had an extra marital affairs with....

Old people like to say:" married couple must have children lah cos children is the bridge between husband and wife..." Does this statement stands anymore in this modern era? I'm afraid not anymore.... sad to know but it's the truth....

Whenever i hear any stories of unfaithfulness from my friends or of my own witness, this word would always come out from my mouth first.... "JIIIIAAAANNNN!!!!" and after which the colourful vocab would flow out automatically......I shan't add on....

I really do hope that my own marriage would be for a lifetime....but....if it's not gonna to be due to unfaithfulness...then I could only say that the affinity between him and me has reach a "timeout" stage and would not be continued anymore...Period.